"HERE ABOVE IS A ULTRASOUND PIC OF MY LITTLE GIRL AT 7 MONTHS IN THE WOMB, WOW, THIS IS DIFFERENT THESE DAYS IN THE ULTRASOUND PICS THEN FROM BACK IN THE DAY, MY LIL ANGEL"
"WELCOME 2 ALL LADIES, NEW MOTHER'S, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY #1 FANS, THE ALREADY MOM'S WORLDWIDE, I SHARE WITH YOU IN MY SUPERMOM HERO JOURNAL TO THE NEW MOM DIARIES"! THE TRIAL 2 ERRORS IN TRYING THE BEST WE CAN IN PLANS TO RAISE OUR BEAUTIFUL LIL MINI WE'S, I SHARE MY WORLD IN RAISING MY FIRST BORN, CAROL-J EVERETT STYLE!
Ok! I admit, I'm married, stressed, probably driving my husband insane, and my first daughter to be is 2 days overdue from out the oven! Ouchhhh, it's really gonna get hot down there now, Ariana, you little devil. Due, March 27th, 2011 she is seeming to be a stubborn one like like her mommy,and likes to come out in this world it seems when it's on her terms, the beauty of another me. Lol, I just hope since she's born late she won't grow up late for her events like her mommy too which I was always so known for, not such a great trait to bear, but the point being is no mother on this earth is completely perfect. This blog site is a small but, important piece of my life in learning "Trials-2-Errors" in new or already mommyhood to share with other mother's and also welcoming father's too worldwide. I never thought of the labor part of this scene in my life until my seventh month in being pregnant that there's pain in the pushings of wanting a baby. I been labeled a "high risk" pregnancy by the doctor's becasue of my epilepsey and I been getting really emotional and freaked out if I could possibly make it out ok with no seizures, panick attacks, hemmorages, or any other complications in delivering. I mean there's already so many changes in the body within the weight, back pains, baby pushing down on the bladder little pains, and just wondering if I'll be a good enough mom and if I'll be good enough for her and not have her feel non-supported or left out in any way. Don't get me wrong, regardless of some of the neglect I felt from my own parents as a child and not having the same treatment as my brother and sister in the chances of a lifetime they get but, I do feel they do deserve it and more, I still love them all to death and I want them to have to not feel in some of the ways I did in the ways I felt I needed them and am happy my parents give them little more time to them now then they did on me as their first. They say they were young at the time I was born blah blah blah, there's always excuses to the why this or that was done. Parents I must say do happen to have trial and errors in raising totally happy kids, I know in my fear of having a child and me not so perfect I will make mistakes, but I just pray and hope me and my daughter will have a understanding of eachother, respect, and open communication in things that effect us both as parent and her as child and work on our issues to be a happier family then most. Ok, enough of this chatter for now and I would like to thank all the doctor's who created books on childcare and raising a newborn. Most people would say I never read a book on rasing a child, it's trial and error. Wow, I hate thinking that some parents learn like that honestly especially the new moms out there. A baby is just more then "trial and error" or learning on new mommy duty, they are supposed to be on schedules, have special ways to feed, nurse, change, and tend to their needs so don't skip on information on their behalf. This all explains why so many kids are out of control, have bad sleeping habits, and get sick alot. If I didn't read many books while pregnant I already found many mistakes I done in setting up her nursery since I don't have my momthers but was able to fix it because of the learning I done. Again, I like most will most likely make some mistakes along the way, just please to the new mommy's out there or those that plan on being a real good mother's in better understanding what it means to have a child, please read just a little, think about the newborn more these days, for now Im going to leave on that note and will be sharing in my new motherhood trials to tribulations in raisnig my daughter, Ariana. Feel free moms to comment below and click follow in upper right hand corner of this blog in your thoughts and share some of your ideas or stories with the rest of us heroic moms and new moms to be, especially much respect and props to all the single wonderful moms raising children that seem to make them so proud. Trial-2-Error diaries in what works and what don't.
Raising Baby 2011-2012,
CAROL-J STYLE!
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